Behind Be Remembered

Katharina Schreiner

I help people get ready for the meetings that decide something — the pitch, the board update, the conversation about the next role.

I started doing it because I kept watching the same thing happen: someone with the better case losing the room to someone who had simply been clearer.

Katharina Schreiner
How this started

Nobody in the room was doing anything wrong.

That was the confusing part. Someone had done the work — the analysis held, the numbers were right, the reasoning was better than anything else on the table. Then eleven minutes later the decision went the other way, to a person who had prepared less and been easier to follow.

I saw it in board briefings, where a week of analysis had to survive in a document someone would read in ninety seconds between two other meetings. I saw it in pitches to banks, exchanges and asset managers, where the better product regularly lost to the better explanation. And I saw it on stages, in front of people who had made up their minds about me before I opened my mouth.

For a long time I called that unfair and moved on. What changed was noticing how consistently the same thing was missing — and that it was not confidence, and it was not charisma. The people who landed had worked out, in advance, the one sentence they wanted the room repeating afterwards, and had built everything else around it. The people who did not were still searching for that sentence in front of the audience, out loud.

Then I started interfering

First a colleague, the night before a budget meeting. Then someone else before a client pitch. Then people I barely knew, sent by the ones I had already helped.

I noticed I was always starting in the same place, and that the same thing kept happening: relief, at the point where their answer got shorter instead of longer. After enough of those conversations it stopped being instinct. It had become an order of questions — one that works whether or not I am the person asking them.

That order of questions is what the Planner is. The same ones I would ask you, in the same order, available at eleven at night — when the presentation is tomorrow and you are the only one still awake.

Where that came from

Rooms where being unconvincing was expensive.

Capital markets
12+ years
High-stakes sales at board level
Politics
15+ years
Ran for the Bundestag, elected local representative
Teaching
University & institutions
Presentation skills, seminars across Europe
Leadership
Up to 10,000 members
National board, teams of 60+
Where I stand

Four things I am fairly certain about.

If you disagree with these, nothing I make will be much use to you — which is worth knowing before you buy anything.

Nobody is a natural

The people who look effortless are not improvising. They worked out what they wanted the room to take away before they walked in, so in the room they only have to deliver it.

One sentence, or none

Afterwards, your audience repeats one thing to someone who was not there. If you have not chosen that sentence, they will choose it for you — and it is rarely the one you would have picked.

The content is the easy half

Almost everyone prepares what they are going to say. Almost nobody prepares how they want to be described afterwards, which is the half that decides what happens next.

Preparation is not rehearsal

Saying it out loud five times only makes you fluent in whichever version you started with. Working out what you actually want to land, and then rehearsing that, is a different exercise entirely.

Work with me

Start on your own, or let's talk.

Most people begin with the Planner. If your room is bigger than that, there is a calendar.